Politicians aren’t going to start taking us seriously until the Media starts taking us seriously.
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And one of the first things the Media does when it wants to assess the newsworthiness of a cause is check FB, Twitter, etc. to see what kind of following the cause has. Hey, Media people are busy, and that’s a quick and dirty way for them to evaluate the potential public interest in a story, and these protests, petitions, etc. don’t have the physical weight to work well yet.
Sure, they do generate publicity, but not a significant amount, because the reality is the Media simply sees 20 or 30 people jumping up and down outside the Court house, who they perceive are merely pissed-off about having to pay child support, and they just don’t think this is newsworthy. Of course we know this perception is wrong, but, this is the majority one today- rightly or wrongly, it is what it is.
Now, the reason why that Bank of America petition earlier this year worked so damn well is because nearly everyone LOATHES banks, especially big banks. They nickel and dime us, they hide fees, the charge interest, they sue us, foreclose on us – whatever; they tend to frequently piss EVERYONE off. So, a petition like that already has the base and the energy, and that’s why, especially in today’s economy, it flew off the radar.
We’re not there yet.
Truthfully, there are millions of us who’re angry about that injuries that have been done to us and our children, but most aren’t seriously activated, and many are simply too afraid to speak out for fear of reprisal from a justice system relies heavily on secrecy and draconian measures to enforce its will.
But even more important, there are also one hell of a lot of folks who have a LOT to lose if reforms are actually made, and they ARE activated.
The National Organization for Women (NOW) has just under 40,000 Facebook followers. Our two primary Lobby/Activist groups:Fathers and Families (just under 4,000 followers) and The American Coalition for Fathers and Children (just under 1,500) are not even close in terms of political capital. And nothing significant is going to happen to accomplish our goals until these numbers come up.
So first, we have to continue to work on coming together. And as we do this, we have to realize that it’s unrealistic to believe we will ever persuade those who don’t agree with us. But we can influence the middle, and they too, will begin to listen once we can show social proof in the form of numbers.”
Do I think petitions and protests are valuable tactics in affecting strategies for Family Law Reform?
However, times change, and what worked yesterday, may not work as well today.
Petitions and protests certainly have their place, and as I mentioned above, they do generate publicity. However, we must ADAPT to the conditions of today.
So, let me try putting it this way: If NOW started sponsoring rallies against Family Law Reform, and The American Coalition For Fathers and Children started sponsoring rallies for Family Law Reform; which group do you think will be awarded greater credibility by the Media and the Public at large?
Effective strategy means adapting and exploiting current conditions to your advantage. Petitions and protests appear to offer that quick fix we so desperately want, but the problem is, the conditions aren’t optimal for those tactics to work well yet.
Social networking platforms like Facebook give each one of us the power and the ability to publicize the truth without having to depend on the Media to do it. And interestingly enough, it’s that very power that, these days, will actually work to attract the attention of the Media in the first place.
Statistically, each one of us knows at least two or three people within our group of Facebook friends who’ve been screwed over by the Family Court.
Have you reached out to them? Have you pointed them toward a group, page, or cause that can offer them love, support, and an opportunity to get involved?
The lesson here is a simple one: work on setting up and building the right conditions, then any number of tactics will have great power.
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